To calculate your Life Path number, just add up the day, month, and year of your birth, then reduce. For example, if you were born on November 25th, 1992, you would add: (1+1) + (2+5) + (1+9+9+2) = 2 + 7 + (2+1) = 2 + 7 + 3 = 12. Then reduce: 1 + 2 = 3. You are a Life Path 3!
If you have a Life Path 4, your life purpose is to create structure. The number 4 represents the home, and you will spend your life building stable foundations, and protecting your home and loved ones. You are all about organization, tradition, practicality, and tangible results! Your challenges arise from a place of being overly rigid, serious, stubborn, and unable to relax.
The number 4 is ruled by Uranus, which seems a little ironic because Uranus is the planet of chaos. However, 4’s often gain their need for structure from an unstable childhood. Likewise, Uranus and its sign Aquarius represent emotional detachment in the wake of trauma. Your challenge as a Life Path 4 is to “awaken” from the chains of the past (very Uranus) in order to fulfill your true potential, and until you do, you will be pulled back into old, dysfunctional patterns via bad habits and relationships. Uranus is also the higher octave of Mercury and represents information systems, which the Life Path 4 excels at establishing, and you are frequently a fountain of knowledge.
Not sounding like the most fun number, is it? 4 is not the life of the party like its predecessor, Life Path 3 (or its follower, Life Path 5). But without 4’s, there would be no structure or operating systems, no one to pass on knowledge from one generation to the next, and no one to tend to house and home. This is literally the number that “keeps it all together,” and does so from a place of needing to build things that last. You are the responsible ones who keep things organized and just so. You also fiercely protect the home and family unit, particularly the one you have created. This is a creative number; while 3’s create castles in the sky, the 4’s build a solid material foundation underneath them. This is a tangible number; orderly, cerebral, and deliberate.
But how does one go from happy-go-lucky 3 to serious, structured 4 on the number cycle? Too much chaos! A 4 often perceives the childhood home as unsafe or tumultuous, perhaps due to the early death of a parent or abuse as a result of alcoholism. There are often abandonment issues, dysfunctional relationships, or traumas that push the young 4 into developing a strong need for security. Even if home life wasn’t that dire, there was likely a sense that your parents could not provide emotional stability, perhaps because they were unreliable, bohemian types, or just had too many children! Whatever the case, order becomes paramount to the 4 at an early age, and you can be rather serious and even cynical when compared to your peers. You may seek relief via substances or other vices, but you’d do best developing a meditation or exercise routine (or both), and frequently getting out into nature.
Life Path 4’s often oscillate between two extremes: either holding onto things for dear life, or avoiding them at all costs! For example, a 4 is a naturally hard worker and builder, yet may avoid staying too long at one job because the responsibility they put on their own shoulders becomes overwhelming. However, I’ve known 4’s who are at the same company from age 18 until retirement, because once they feel a sense of stability somewhere, they’ll hold onto it come hell or high water! But a 4 is not the type to desire wealth or prestige; you are the worker bees who plod through and want nothing more than a routine and sense of accomplishment, however humble.
Similarly, 4’s will either get married and stay in the same committed relationship for life (they enjoy building a family and home structure), or avoid commitment. As stated before, the Life Path 4 will often experience dysfunctional habits or relationships in youth, and is very dismayed at their own pull towards the same dysfunction; they can have lifelong struggles with addition, or keep falling into the same type of (bad) relationship over and over. but they often have the wherewithal to not put down roots until they have broken the cycle. Commitment to anything is often the cure to many a 4’s woes, because you love hard work at heart, and settling down for the long haul! (It also heals a lot of childhood instability and abandonment issues.)
Another thing 4’s are great at is building a solid home, and parenting. Once they get over their own childhood issues, they know exactly what (and what not) to do to create a secure home for family, and how to give children a solid base. This is a rather selfless number – again, not concerned with typical “greatness” or personal prestige – and you will give yourself over fully to your children’s needs, especially towards security and a stable home life. 4’s tend to be traditional, responsible, and orderly enough to teach their children valuable lessons, and are highly protective. The one thing you may lack as a parent is a sense of spontaneity and fun (you are total planners!), and may be emotionally distant at times, or even pessimistic.
If you are a Life Path 4, your ultimate goal is to create your own set of rules to live by, and adhere to them on a daily basis. It may sound boring and lackluster to others, but you are truly the salt of the earth, and the bedrock on which others can rely. Plus, you are happiest creating your own solid and lasting legacy in your own little corner of the world! You will be challenged with a resistance to change, inflexible attitude at times, and negativity (especially when facing old fears). It helps when you realize that the past is over, and the chains around you are not tight; you can take them off at any time, and live your life right now in whatever way you choose. If you don’t like something, you have the creative power to build it better; it’s what you do best!