Your Life Path number in numerology is the most significant number, and represents the essence of who you are and why you are here. You’ll spend a lifetime learning about it (much like in astrology, you spend a lifetime coming into your sun sign). To calculate your Life Path number, just add up the day, month, and year of your birth, then reduce. For example, if you were born on November 25th, 1992, you would add: (1+1) + (2+5) + (1+9+9+2) = 2 + 7 + (2+1) = 2 + 7 + 3 = 12. Then reduce: 1 + 2 = 3. You are a Life Path 3!
If you have a 6 Life Path, then congratulations, because you have the most attractive number. You also have the most responsibility on your hands, so…there’s that too! 6 is the number of family and home, different from the way 4 is about the physical structure of your house, but because home is where the heart is. 6 is the number of the heart, and of love. That’s why it’s so attractive! Love is the strongest force we have. When you open up your heart you send out that power, and people naturally want to return it. The trick is, letting love in can be difficult, too!
The number 6 is a lot like the zodiac sign Libra. Aside from the love thing, 6s are always trying to seek justice for all. But there’s a little Capricorn (or Cancer) thrown into the mix, because Life Path 6s are often the family patriarchs or matriarchs, and tend towards leadership in any setting. They are often worried about everyone else, too. I think of LP 6s like perpetual eldest children…they shoulder a lot of responsibility and have to worry about their younger siblings, have the most chores, but in a way enjoy being the one their parents look to, to help things run smoothly. Then they grow up and recreate the whole thing by marrying, buying a house, and having kids. They just need people and responsibility!
I said above that this sign is a bit Capricorn-y, then went on to describe all the things that sound more like Cancer. But here’s where the Goat comes in: Life Path 6s tend to be control freaks, and they like running things in business too. These people find it hard to let go and let others live their lives. If you are a 6 and you don’t have a family, you’ll make a family of your friends, or if you don’t have a spouse you’ll uber-focus on your kids. You can easily become a helicopter parent, or that person that is always trying to rescue or “fix” others. Careful, that’s not sexy! Get yourself a creative project to focus on instead, because on top of being the most attractive number, you’re also good at art and music and stuff (because life is so fair!). The payment for your many gifts is, of course, that you’re a judge-y perfectionist.
Life path 6s care a lot. When people don’t let your love in, however, you can get very annoying to be around. You have high expectations of yourself and others, and people just can’t live up to that. You also (like Libra) blow icy cold when you aren’t happy, which is just another form of trying to control the people around you. Try letting go instead of tightening your grip when you get disappointed or stressed out, and remember that the ones you love are only human! If you must control something, let it be your business or hobby, and watch it flourish. I like 6s because I’m a Life Path 9 and we’re compatible energy (plus I just like being fussed over, I have a Leo moon!)…but they can be some of the most smothering people when they get on a binge. Kind of like a bored 3 who decides to make you their pet project! There’s something about 3, 6, and 9 that resonates (because they are multiples of 3, I guess).
I think there’s also something Neptunian in the 6 energy because of the idealism and creative energy. You can use this to be really compassionate to others and successful in creative endeavors, or like Neptune/Pisces, you can let yourself become disappointed over and over when reality doesn’t live up to your high ideals. Or, you don’t take action – in typical Libra fashion – because circumstances aren’t perfect. Don’t let your life be ruined. As my mom always says, “perfection is the enemy of done.” When you embrace the messiness of life and realize that you can’t see it from your small human perspective, but life is perfect, then nothing can stop you. Listen to me, I know these things, I’m a 9. 😛